Thursday, September 30, 2010

The Change

Andrew Carnegie once said, " Dealing with people is like digging for the gold. When you go digging for gold, you have to move tons of dirt to get an ounce of gold. But when you go digging, you don't go looking for the dirt, you go looking for the gold."

How do you evaluate a person? Do you always complain about the nature of the person you deal with? Do you believe that people around you are not so nice to you? Change your vision; Change your perspective. Everyone will have something positive in them. Find out some time to appreciate it( at least in your mind). Go looking for the gold around you, not the dirt. The more you appreciate the positiveness in a person, the more positive he will be towards you. Feels like a bull**** write up? This theory is not only for people but for everything around you. Change your perspective and read it once more: and feel the change!

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

My First Trekking Experience

One of my friend Mohammed Rafi, who is a hardcore trekker was asking me to join him on trekking from a long while. But you know how it is in a professional life, I was not getting time to be with him. This time, I had decided that I will join Rafi and was lucky to join him on a trekking to Dudh-Sagar Waterfalls. I am a very social guy who used to mingle with people very easily, but you know when Rafi told that there will be 34 people I was a little bit embarrassed, as I know only Rafi in that group, who call themselves as 'Bangalore ASCENDers'.

As a fellow trekker, the first job assigned to me was to collect a tarpaulin sheet from Mr. Ambareesh a core member of Bangalore ASCENDers, who is not coming for this trek. I reached Majestic Bus Stand at 8:20 and collected the tarpaulin sheet and waited there at platform number one for others to reach. All of them are new to me, so I was searching each person coming to Platform number one that whether they have a sleeping mat with them and I found none. I got worried as the time reached 9 pm and the time of reporting was at 8.45 pm. At that time I got a call from Rafi asking where I am as they all reached the Platform number one. Then only I came to know that reporting place was the Intercity Bus stand and not the BMTC bus stand. I was standing at the BMTC bus stand for previous 40 minutes and was getting tensed. And when I reached the Intercity bus stand Rafi introduced me to the fellow trekkers as 'Guys meet Mr. Anand Pai, the person who asked what is the sweeper's duty in trekking and the person who bought the new sleeping mat only to forget it in the room'.

You know guys as I was new to trekking I was not knowing what a sweeper does so I just asked it openly, that was the biggest mistake I had done. And the next one is really my mistake, I disturbed one entire day Rafi by calling him from each shop at Jayanagar to select a sleeping mat for me and I forgot the same in my room.

We started our journey in Raja Hamsa by around 9.30 pm. 31 people in a bus(three girls were coming on the train by their own to join us at Hubli) of 40 seats. You should understand how unlucky the other co- passengers are! we were shouting, taking snaps, talking loudly, roaming around the bus; it was very nice to be in a group. To be frank I never felt that I was in a group of 30 people in which 29 of them were total strangers to me. They were talking in Kannada and specially translating it for me(I don't know Kannada as I am from Kerala)- so nice of them ha! Five of us had our dinner from the bus itself. Vivek PC bought some tomato rise and idly chutney which we shared(I was not able to take my dinner even though I reached early as I was really tensed). Nothing much to say about our bus journey as we all fell into sleep one by one.
Hey, I forgot to write something! It was Rafi who counted 31 at the first. The bus stopped at some place in the midway, to have food, for a few minutes. After the bus started again Rafi counted us to 30 only. Oye, one person is missing, how come? And as we checked everyone is present but the count is one less! At last, we found out that Rafi is so good in counting that he counted the person who is coming from Pune directly to Hubli as present on the bus at the first time to make it 31.

We reached Hubli by around 6.30 in the morning and our train to Castle Rock was scheduled 7'o clock. As it was early in the morning there was not much rush in the train and we enjoyed a lot taking snaps of each other and the view outside also was beautiful. Once we reached the Castle Rock railway station heavy rain welcomed us. We repacked our luggage after sharing the food items and started our trekking through the railway track. The first thing I noticed is the historical old railway station of Castle Rock, of which only two walls are left, that too with full of green bushes on it. Traveling through a railway track was never so much interesting in my life. I approached each railway tunnel with a little bit fear as there were rumors about poisonous snakes in that, but we never came across one.
Just before reaching the Goa border we had seen a beautiful place where a small stream is coming( there were much more streams in between and after but none of them were so beautiful and accessible). Few of us spend fifteen minutes there in the stream clicking snaps and enjoying the water. The water flowing was so pure that it felt like the 'Amrit'. Castle Rock to Dudh Sagar is around 15 kilometer and middle of which is the Caranzol railway station behind which there is a small Ganesha temple. After having chapathi and thokku(PC bought it for us, tasted wonderful with chapathi) instead of continuing the trekking by walking some of us get into the last compartment of a goods train. Wow! that was a wonderful experience.

After reaching the Dudh Sagar railway station we rested for a while to let others who is really trekking to reach us. And what we saw is four of them including Ashwal came in the train engine. They got a lift from the middle of trekking. They told me that to travel in the engine is also very amazing. Once we all reached the station we moved to the waterfall which is around one kilometer ahead. And you know I felt like I reached the fortress of the historical Princess. It was such a beautiful view of my life.

For those who don't know the history: Legend has it that a beautiful princess lived in the forest on the edge of the King's palace grounds. She enjoyed bathing in a lake nearby and ritually drank sweetened milk from a Golden Jug upon finishing with her bath. One day while enjoying her jug of milk she found herself being watched by a handsome prince standing amongst the trees. Red with embarrassment at her inadequate bathing attire, the Princess poured the jug of milk in front of her to form an improvised curtain to hide her body, while one of the maids rushed to cover her with a dress.
The sweetened milk cascades down the mountain slope to this day as a tribute to the virtue and modesty of the Princess.
That evening we camped at a place which is very near to the princes. Hats off to Rajesh and team who cleaned the camping site to make it a livable space. We were jam packed with the space available but the co-ordination within the fellow trekkers was amazingly the best. It clearly showed the culture that the BASC is following. I love you BASC! That evening we had so much of fun which I cannot describe in my words. Next day morning some of them went to have a bath at a smaller waterfall nearby and continued their trekking towards Kulem which around 10 kilometers. Some of us were more brilliant we went ahead towards Kulem about one and a half kilometer from where we had a beautiful and full view of the waterfall and had a very good photo session. After that, we went back to the Dudh Sagar railway station to board our next goods train!

It is not like that we don't want to trek but we were not having enough time as we prepared our breakfast at the camping site. Those who had the trekking didn't wait for the breakfast as they had to hurry to reach Kulem in time. Oh, I forgot two things. One is the taste of the Maggie prepared by the Viveks(There were two of them Vivek PC and Vivek Bhat) and the kindness of the Pai sisters to bring as much food as possible to share within. From Kulem we boarded the train back to Londa in Goa Express at around 4.30 pm. This journey was a different experience as it was jam packed and we don't even have a place to stand properly, but it was only for one and half hours as we reached Londa. There we had 'Garam Garam Vada Pav'. I bought my first plate and I didn't get a single piece from it. From my second plate, I somehow managed to get one bite. From the third plate only I got one full vada pav. Then I stopped buying and started to eat from others!

We spend around one and half hour at Londa station resting and chit-chatting. We were about to start dancing to the music when the train came. Inside the train, it was time to review the pictures we took while trekking and after that, we went sleeping. Early morning five twenty is the time at which my alarm cry, as usual, I switched it off and slept again. But all of my friends got up because of that and they didn't get sleep after that. Then around 7.30 am we reached back to Bangalore.
But the story will be incomplete without two things. One is about Mr. Nishant; he was the heart of the trekking by cracking jokes and pulling others legs whenever possible and not letting us get bored(even though I was not able to understand many of them as they were in Kannada). The second one is my own experience: I forgot my camera at Londa station which one of my fellow trekkers found out and gave it back to me. But after some time they hide my camera only to make me tensed and gave back my camera only after- Oh1 they covered my face with my own stinking jacket(stinking because it was wet due to rain) and started hitting and kicking me. I lost the count of the number of bumps I got within five minutes. Then they gave my camera back and asked me never to forget it again. You don't know how caring they are!

At the end of the day, I decided never to loose a chance of trekking with the Bangalore ASCENDers. Yes me too in the list of people who are addicted to the trekking!

Jai Hind

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Be Proud To Be An INDIAN

There is a reason to write this blog now. Two days back I got a forward mail from one of my friends narrating the speech of Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam tagged as 'must read for every Indian'. I think all of you might have gone through it at least once since it is a 7 year old email and still continues the loop. Yes, it is the very same speech in which he talks about why the Indians and the Indian media are so negative; the very same speech in which he asks for ten minutes of every Indian to think about why we behave differently when at abroad and at home and why we obey the rules in a foreign country and at the same time does not bother what the rules says in India.

I didn't give it a big importance as it is not the first time I am receiving the same. But a reply from a person who is a friend of my friend but totally unknown person for me made me think about it. He made me react to his reply; as per him this mail was irrational and compilation of bullshit(as per his words),he depicts that it is foolish to believe the rosy pictures painted by someone of the garden next door(mentioning about Dr. Kalam) and he doesn't mind the person who gave the speech was the Indian President or a person who got the Padma Bhushan in 1981; Padma Vibhushan in 1990; and the Bharat Ratna in 1997.

The most funniest thing is, in between this talk another person came up with an opinion that this article was not Dr. Kalam and its a spam- Wow!In his words, a great personality like Dr. Kalam will not give such a stupid and provocative mail. And as per him, 70% of the Indian population in under the BPL( he is still four decades back I think) and we minority people(above BPL) sitting in front of a laptop in an a/c room is simply wasting our time for a useless debate. I wonder how people are having all these kind of false information in this era of information technology! I shut him up by giving him the link to the original speech and by submitting the statistical tables of present Indian economy. You can also have a look at the original speech here

I asked our hero if Dr. Kalam is not the right person to talk to us then who in the world is? and I explained him clearly that by this speech Dr. Kalam meant to motivate the Indian youth. He is doing what a great leader should do- Motivate and Show us the path. To understand what he meant exactly and to contribute to the growth of the country by changing accordingly is our duty.

Do you know what happened next? I got emails from his friends, appreciating me and saying sorry for their friend who cannot understand. But what I am worried is if 2 out of 20 people in the mailing list is thinking like this then what will be the number in total 110 crores. That's why I decided to write this here.

The change of the entire nation starts with a single person. If everyone fears to be the first(to change), the change will never occur. Dr. Kalam cannot come to each one of us and tell us what to change. Understand his intentions in the right way and begin the change. It is our duty to make his vision- The Vision 2020, a truth.

I will stop with a quote by Dr. Joe Vitale the marketing guru. "I believe that the past is gone and the future is now". Stop worrying about the past and look forward to the future. Be a contributing part of that India which all of us dreams.

JAI HIND

Sunday, July 4, 2010

John Wooden Quotes...

A coach is someone who can give correction without causing resentment.

Ability is a poor man's wealth.

Adversity is the state in which man mostly easily becomes acquainted with himself, being especially free of admirers then.

Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.

Be prepared and be honest.

Consider the rights of others before your own feelings, and the feelings of others before your own rights.

Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.

Don't let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.

Don't measure yourself by what you have accomplished, but by what you should have accomplished with your ability.

Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.

I'd rather have a lot of talent and a little experience than a lot of experience and a little talent.

If you don't have time to do it right, when will you have time to do it over?

If you're not making mistakes, then you're not doing anything. I'm positive that a doer makes mistakes.

It isn't what you do, but how you do it.

It's not so important who starts the game but who finishes it.

It's the little details that are vital. Little things make big things happen.

It's what you learn after you know it all that counts.

Material possessions, winning scores, and great reputations are meaningless in the eyes of the Lord because He knows what we really are and that is all that matters.

Never mistake activity for achievement.

Success comes from knowing that you did your best to become the best that you are capable of becoming.
John Wooden

Success is never final, failure is never fatal. It's courage that counts.

Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming.

Talent is God given. Be humble. Fame is man given. Be grateful. The conceit is self-given. Be careful.

The main ingredient of stardom is the rest of the team.

The worst thing about new books is that they keep us from reading the old ones.

There are many things that are essential to arriving at true peace of mind, and one of the most important is faith, which cannot be acquired without prayer.

Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out.

What you are as a person is far more important that what you are as a basketball player.

Winning takes talent, to repeat takes the character.

You can't let praise or criticism get to you. It's a weakness to get caught up in either one.

You can't live a perfect day without doing something for someone who will never be able to repay you.

The Pyramid of Success

John Wooden is known as 'The greatest Coach of All Time.' The legendary men’s basketball coach led UCLA to an unprecedented 10 national championships. He took the UCLA basketball team to 88 consecutive victories, 8 undefeated conference seasons, 38 straight NCAA tournament victories, and 4 perfect seasons. During his tenure with the Bruins, Wooden became known as the "Wizard of Westwood." His 'Pyramid of Success' is as famous as the coach himself.

The principles of his pyramid can be summarized as

Industriousness:
  • Work hard. Don’t just go through the motions. Be totally focused and fully engaged to accomplish the task at hand.
Enthusiasm:
  • Be passionate about what you do. Energy and enjoyment, drive and dedication prevent work from becoming drudgery and stimulate a team to succeed.
Friendship:
  • Instill respect and camaraderie, or a spirit of goodwill, amongst team members.
Loyalty:
  • First, don’t betray yourself by compromising your standards and values. Second, don’t betray those you lead by compromising their trust.
Cooperation:
  • Be more committed to what’s right than to who’s right. Freely share ideas, information, creativity, and responsibility regardless of who gets the credit.
  • “A strong leader accepts blame and gives the credit.”
Self-Control
  • Show self-discipline in the little things. Resist the easy choices, the expedient solutions, and the temptations that will drag you and your team down.
Alertness:
  • Constantly observe, absorb, and learn from what’s going on around you. Evaluate your strengths and weaknesses as well as your competitors’.
Initiative:
  • Exercise the courage to make decisions and to act. Be willing to risk failure. Take a strong stand.
  • “Make each day your masterpiece.”
Intentness:
  • Exhibit diligence and determination, fortitude and resolve. Constantly, relentlessly persist in your pursuit of excellence.
Condition:
  • Develop mental, moral, and physical strength.
  • “Practice moderation and balance in all you do.”
Skill:
  • Be proficient in performing all aspects of your job.
Team Spirit:
  • Be eager to sacrifice personal interests or glory for the good of all.
  • “Define success for those under your leadership as total commitment and effort to the team’s welfare.”
Poise:
  • Hold fast to your beliefs and live them out, regardless of how bad or good a situation might be. Avoid pose or pretense. Don’t compare yourself to others or act like someone you’re not. Be brave in all circumstances.
Confidence:
  • Believe firmly that you’ve done everything you can to successfully face the challenges ahead. Then, rest assured that you’re prepared to perform at the highest level.
Competitive Greatness:
  • Wooden defines competitive greatness as “A real love for the hard battle, knowing it offers the opportunity to perform at your best when your best is required.”
  • Derive joy from the struggle, the journey, the contest.
  • “The hard struggle is to be welcomed, never feared. In fact, when you define success this way, the only thing to fear is your own unwillingness to make the full, 100 percent effort to prepare and perform at the highest level or your ability.”

Friday, April 30, 2010

Importance of Attitude

Attitude is known as the foundation of Success! A person with a positive attitude is always having a better living than others who don't have it. If your attitude is negative, your life is restricted. But not having the negative attitude does not make a person positive. Some of the factors that built the attitude in you are the environment, experience, education etc. Obviously, all of us are not having these factors in the same kind and amount. You should be lucky enough to have a positive attitude by nature. So how can a person who don't have a positive attitude, get into the success path of the life? Can he ever get a positive attitude?

Yes! A good attitude can be gained by practice. A person who evaluate the situation and how he had responded to that situation understands his attitude towards it. Find out your attitude and correct it if necessary.

Saturday, April 24, 2010

The Power of The Dream by Celine Dion

Céline Marie Claudette Dion born March 30, 1968, is a Canadian singer, occasional songwriter, actress, and entrepreneur. Born to a large, impoverished family in Charlemagne, Quebec, Dion emerged as a teen star in the French-speaking world after her manager and future husband René Angélil mortgaged his home to finance her first record. In 1990, she released the anglophone album Unison, establishing herself as a viable pop artist in North America and other English-speaking areas of the world.
here I am submitting a work of Celine Dion "The Power of the DREAM"

Deep within each heart
There lies a magic spark
That lights the fire of our imagination
And since the dawn of man
The strength of just "I can"
Has brought together people of all nations

There's nothing ordinary
In the living of each day
There's a special part
Every one of us will play

Feel the flame forever burn
Teaching lessons we must learn
To bring us closer to the power of the dream
As the world gives us its best
To stand apart from all the rest
It is the power of the dream that brings us here

Your mind will take you far
The rest is just pure heart
You'll find your fate is all your own creation
Every boy and girl
As they come into this world
They bring the gift of hope and inspiration

Feel the flame forever burn
Teaching lessons we must learn
To bring us closer to the power of the dream
The world unites in hope and peace
We pray that it will always be
It is the power of the dream that brings us here

There's so much strength in all of us
Every woman child and man
It's the moment that you think you can't
You'll discover that you can

Feel the flame forever burn
Teaching lessons we must learn
To bring us closer to the power of the dream
The world unites in hope and peace
We pray that it will always be
It is the power of the dream that brings us here

Feel the flame forever burn
Teaching lessons we must learn
To bring us closer to the power of the dream
The world unites in hope and peace
We pray that it will always be
It is the power of the dream that brings us here

The power of the dream
The faith in things unseen
The courage to embrace your fear
No matter where you are
To reach for your own star
To realize the power of the dream

Friday, April 23, 2010

16 Rules of Success by Bob Parsons

Bob Parsons is the CEO and Founder of The Go Daddy Group, Inc. Parsons joined the U.S. Marine Corps during the Vietnam War and received the Combat Action Ribbon, Vietnamese Cross of Gallantry and a Purple Heart Medal. Upon his return, Parsons enrolled in the University of Baltimore where he earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Accounting. He is a Certified Public Accountant.

1. Get and stay out of your comfort zone.

I believe that not much happens of any significance when we're in our comfort zone. I hear people say, "But I'm concerned about security." My response to that is simple: "Security is for cadavers."

2. Never give up.

Almost nothing works the first time it's attempted. Just because what you're doing does not seem to be working, doesn't mean it won't work. It just means that it might not work the way you're doing it. If it was easy, everyone would be doing it, and you wouldn't have an opportunity.

3. When you're ready to quit, you're closer than you think.

There's an old Chinese saying that I just love, and I believe it is so true. It goes like this: "The temptation to quit will be greatest just before you are about to succeed."

4. With regard to whatever worries you, not only accept the worst thing that could happen but make it a point to quantify what the worst thing could be.

Very seldom will the worst consequence be anywhere near as bad as a cloud of "undefined consequences." My father would tell me early on, when I was struggling and losing my shirt trying to get Parsons Technology going, "Well, Robert, if it doesn't work, they can't eat you."

5. Focus on what you want to have happened.

Remember that old saying, "As you think, so shall you be."

6. Take things a day at a time.

No matter how difficult your situation is, you can get through it if you don't look too far into the future, and focus on the present moment. You can get through anything one day at a time.

7. Always be moving forward.

Never stop investing. Never stop improving. Never stop doing something new. The moment you stop improving your organization, it starts to die. Make it your goal to be better each and every day, in some small way. Remember the Japanese concept of Kaizen. Small daily improvements eventually result in huge advantages.

8. Be quick to decide.

Remember what General George S. Patton said: "A good plan violently executed today is far and away better than a perfect plan tomorrow."

9. Measure everything of significance.

I swear this is true. Anything that is measured and watched, improves.

10. Anything that is not managed will deteriorate.

If you want to uncover problems you don't know about, take a few moments and look closely at the areas you haven't examined for a while. I guarantee you problems will be there.

11. Pay attention to your competitors, but pay more attention to what you're doing.

When you look at your competitors, remember that everything looks perfect at a distance. Even the planet Earth, if you get far enough into space, looks like a peaceful place.

12. Never let anybody push you around.

In our society, with our laws and even playing field, you have just as much right to what you're doing as anyone else, provided that what you're doing is legal.

13. Never expect life to be fair.

Life isn't fair. You make your own breaks. You'll be doing good if the only meaning fair has to you, is something that you pay when you get on a bus (i.e., fare).

14. Solve your own problems.

You'll find that by coming up with your own solutions, you'll develop a competitive edge. Masura Ibuka, the co-founder of SONY, said it best: "You never succeed in technology, business, or anything by following the others." There's also an old Asian saying that I remind myself of frequently. It goes like this: "A wise man keeps his own counsel."

15. Don't take yourself too seriously.

Lighten up. Often, at least half of what we accomplish is due to luck. None of us are in control as much as we like to think we are.

16. There's always a reason to smile.

Find it. After all, you're really lucky just to be alive. Life is short. More and more, I agree with my little brother. He always reminds me: "We're not here for a long time, we're here for a good time!"

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Formula of Success!

What is the formula success?
Someone said 99% perspiration and 1% inspiration...
Many people in life are very hard working but still not successful in life...
Why? 'The lack of one percent Inspiration'.
Where do we get such inspiration? can't find it around you? Look inside dear! Find it inside yourself. Change your attitude to a positive one. Success is not an accident- it's a choice. You choose to be successful. Think yourself that you can win, you are born to win! See the 1% comes automatically in the view now. Many a lack the ability to think positively and fails in life even after their 99% of hard work. Be confident about yourself first. There might be many sources of negativeness around you which pull you down from your success. If you are not confident enough these negative thoughts will make you lose the game of life! be confident yourself and be positive!

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Do you have 'Dreams' ?

Hello Folks,

Do you have DREAMS ?. To answer this question you should define what is a dream. Wiki says that "A dream is a succession of thoughts, images, sounds or emotions which the mind experiences during sleep". What do you think? Is this the dream I am talking about? No way. For me 'a dream' is something which never lets you sleep, not something that you see when you are asleep. Now give me your answer, do you have dreams? !!!

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Why this blog

Hi everybody,

I am Anand Pai, a 25-year young guy from India. This is my first blog and the first post. So I want all the respectful readers to guide me through how to improve myself as a good blogger.

I had always wondered what is LIFE, why we are living beings, what is the purpose of our life? And I never come across a perfect answer to this question. Then I changed my thought a little bit! I started to believe myself that there is some purpose that I am living. And unless you succeed in your life, how can you find out what it is? If you want to know the result of any experiment, you have to complete it successfully. Life is an experiment which can be done only once. So it is very important that we succeed in life to know what it means really !!!

Now the next question arises is "What is SUCCESS?", How you define success? I found out that this is a 'Chain of Questions' that are going to follow one after another. So with this blog, i am going to find out the answers to these questions which haunts many people from time to time. All you readers are welcome for a healthy discussion on these topics. Thanking you in advance,

Anand Pai